Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 29, 2008, at 10:49:56
In reply to Transference, posted by Amanda29 on July 28, 2008, at 16:53:26
If he is a skilled therapist, he will understand. I fell in love (transference exists in ALL relationships); not just client and t.....for me, my t doesn't remind me of anyone else (the Freudian transference).
If I had met him anywhere else, I would have felt/feel the same about him. We are alike in almost 30 different ways.
I got the courage/nerve 4 years ago to tell him of my feelings; he handled it with sensitivity/delicacy.
Unfortunately, he has struggled/talked about his feelings "chemistry" with ME; that makes it really hard.
He really should have dealt with his feelings (for me) invisibly; that way I wouldn't have suffered so much.
There's a great book: Sex in the Forbidden Zone by Peter Rutter
Smiles, Sassy
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