Posted by stellabystarlight on July 22, 2008, at 0:13:44
My T has acted jealous when I talk about other men in a romantic/sexual way. He has admitted that he is attracted to me in the past, but said we couldn't act on it.
Now I'm very sensitive to his reactions when I talk about other men. Honestly, I sometimes find satisfaction watching him with a hurt look on his face. I guess it makes me feel like he has deep feelings for me.
He has told me that he cares about me, but "just can't get involved because it would be so damaging." Do any of you think it's somewhat normal for T's to have jealous/posessive feelings at times? I know they're not suppose to show these feelings, but they're human too.
I'm a little confused about this...is this common?
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