Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2008, at 17:12:38
In reply to Re: HOOORAY!!!! I think the worst is past. :), posted by Annierose on June 20, 2008, at 7:21:29
I suppose in the larger sense, I'm a bit concerned that his crises become my crises. And we spent a fair amount of the session debating rather I'm really growing, if my growth is dependent on him. I take the viewpoint that real growth wouldn't be dependent on another. He takes the view that real growth isn't linear. That setbacks don't mean the growth isn't real. We didn't end up agreeing.
But I'm not going to think about it too much yet. Maybe in a while.
He never told me what the issue was. But at some point, I told him with some acerbity in response to one of his mysterious comments that there just weren't all that many options involved, explaining why I said that, and what few choices I saw remaining. He later referred to that as my knowing what was going on with him, so I imagine my conclusion wasn't far off. Sigh. *That* he remembered.
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