Posted by Dinah on April 13, 2008, at 20:31:07
In reply to Re: change.... maybe good, maybe not » gardenergirl, posted by sunnydays on April 13, 2008, at 20:02:04
I was going to suggest that you might want to journal. :) That way you can reach out to him by talking to him anytime in your journal.
Do you have a picture of him? Or a recording? I have both, and while I rarely listen to the recordings, his picture is on my screensaver, along with pictures of other people who are important to me.
You know, I see some positives in this too. If you can manage to internalize him at least a little, you'll be able to have him with you all the time. Which is the most reliable way to have him, or at least that's my experience.
My therapist says that the "him" I carry around with me is probably better than the him in person. And in some ways he's right. :)
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