Posted by B2chica on February 15, 2008, at 14:58:02
In reply to Re: Emotional abuse » B2chica, posted by Jamal Spelling on February 15, 2008, at 14:39:38
thaz right J!
you go in with fire in your heart and a smirk on your face next time.
remember you are paying for HIS services. he needs to do for You.
sometimes faculty can get all high and mighty but they forget they are in a service position. they are there to GUIDE NOT CONTROL.
and even if he tells you "you are the worst writer and you will never...blah blah.." remember J. ..who is he?? a lowly professor at a college doing what? working for 100 different students.
he is not your boss, he is not your Potential employer, so who gives a rip. take it with pride and say ok if i'm that bad...i'm YOUR advisee, i've been under your tutolage how long? and i'm still bad? what are you doing so wrong that i'm still bad...and why aren't you working harder to get me help to improve?
then you can snicker inside as you wait for his stumbled reply.