Posted by MidnightBlue on January 11, 2008, at 14:52:28
In reply to Re: How you doin ? » MidnightBlue, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on January 11, 2008, at 8:09:43
LL a couple of "generic" questions. Don't answer if you don't want to.
Do you live near his folks, your folks, or near no folks? Do you feel safe in this location? Do you feel you are building a support system there? I know you haven't lived there long.
How long have you been married? And have the "rules" changed since you first got married? By that I mean one wants kids now the other doesn't, one thought cultural differences was no big thing now it is?
Why no counseling? Is he afraid that is "your turf" because of your degree? Really just trying to be helpful and help you sort this out.
The old married lady,
MidnightBlue
P.S. all marriages hit rough patches
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