Posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 7:46:38
In reply to Re: Thanks Everybody - Follow-up, posted by JoniS on November 5, 2007, at 0:09:36
Maybe you need to think about what you want, and be prepapred for either?(abrubpt distance or ocntinued disclosure, or mebbe even repentance for discolsure, dunno your T's style)
Maybe you can make it clear to him right from the get go where you want to be from a boundary POV? Mebbe say thank you for your honesty, there was comfort in that, but now cuz you going away i need some distance....(this is just an example, you'd have to say what YOU think.)
Just don't want to see your last sessions messed up.
It IS confusing getting back on track, but I have discovered (I beleive, in my case)that its doable.I think it has been a challenge for both of us.
Take care,
M
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