Posted by Dory on October 29, 2007, at 14:06:22
In reply to hurting., posted by B2chica on October 29, 2007, at 11:46:15
Damn. i had written a lengthy reply... f*ck.
B2, sweet B2. i am so sorry for your pain. Please be gentle with yourself.
Is there something special you can do for yourself? Get your favourite flavour of ice cream? Hot bath and a glass of wine? Chocolate over-load?
moments of joy can be found... and that is what joy really is, moments here and there. There is no place called happiness, no destination or port. It's the single smile or moment of recognition of beauty. When we are depressed we overlook those moments.. we can't see through our pain.
please try to find some moments of joy.. even one. Your littleone's smile... the shape of a cloud.. anything which reminds you of the pure, simple joy of being alive. We are priviledged creatures.. even with all our pain we get to see the world like no other creature before us...
B2... i am going to be completely selfish.. i want you to survive and be here. Please find ways to be safe and be proud of surviving. You have done an amazing job of keeping yourself going... hold onto that.
poster:Dory
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