Posted by moonlightsonata on October 28, 2007, at 19:48:02
In reply to Re: I've fallen in love with my psychiatrist » I need a hug, posted by Dinah on October 28, 2007, at 12:02:49
Hi inah,
Thanks for your posts on my thread about wanting to hug my T...I wrote some more on there today, and I hope you read it.How you said that you sometimes fantasize about being with your T...I feel that too. And I've been trying to figure out if you're M or F, but I guess it doesn't matter. I'm female, and so is my T, so sometimes I get worried about those fantasies because I don't know what they mean. But some of the feelings are so intense, and the desire for closeness is so much more intense.....I think it's more about closeness than sexual feeling, but maybe that sexual feeling is a metaphor because I'm not good at expressing closeness and need in other ways. Still really scary and confusing. Why can't I be like a normal person and get a man and love him instead of displacing all this on my T, with whom it's impossible to have a relationship, and will only make me more and more isolated??
Sorry, I ddint' mean to take over your thread and make it all about me....just that your comments really rang true in ways that others haven't in the past.
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