Posted by Dory on October 17, 2007, at 16:15:25
In reply to Re: quick note... :o) » Dory, posted by B2chica on October 17, 2007, at 13:26:20
chuckle acknowledged... i also have to give credit to obsidian, i think it was her phrase. i stole it.
You SIT THERE while he READS it???!!! ACK! OMG you are so much braver than i. When i say drop and run i am being literal. i had it to him as i am going out the door. sometimes i drop them off b/w sessions. i often write him stuff as my way of journalling, i just write it as if i were telling him. Sometimes i give them to him and sometimes i don't. More often than not i do... but this one was different. Very different.
one thing i deeply appreciate is that he is one of those T's that doesn't object to reading stuff outside of session. If i were piling letters on him every day i think he'd say something, but one or two pages once a week or less is not so much. He says he reads them twice, once when i give it to him and once again before our session. i've never understood Ts that set a boundary there... i pay a lot of money, it's not so much of his time. i suppose though, i don't have after hours access either.
your itemized list is perfectly said.. you do have such a good way with expressing things. i hope you journal as well. i spend hours interrogating myself on paper really.
part of the event itself was geared toward minimalizing... teaching us that we should never talk about it.
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