Posted by OzLand on July 22, 2007, at 21:46:31
In reply to Re: le violon » LlurpsieNoodle, posted by Phillipa on July 22, 2007, at 19:51:29
Sometimes husbands just don't understand. Sometimes it is better to talk to one' T rather than share with one's husband. I don't know if that is true for others, but it sure is for me.
Tonight turned into a horrible fight over stuff again. I really can't take the conflict right now and so I don't know what to do. T is out of town. I tried to explain to my husband about how things were and that conflict was making me depressed, and so what does he do--let's have a fight; lets say OzLand doesn't let have his own spirituality.
What it really is is that he feels threatened when I develop female friendships. He feels much better if he is in a one up, and I am one down position. Does that sound like someone I should confide in. My T doesn't think so, and my T years ago didn't think so either.
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