Posted by TherapyGirl on July 22, 2007, at 19:26:01
In reply to Needs and my situation with T.....help!!, posted by jammerlich on July 22, 2007, at 17:13:43
I think it's completely okay and if she doesn't get it, I do think you should explore other options. I also think it's possible that she's seeming a little more ambivalent than she means to because she doesn't want you to think she thinks you can't do it.
I like the idea about writing it all out and leaving it with her to mull over. I don't know how well you express yourself in person with her, but I know I have trouble with this. So if I write it out, I'm usually much clearer about what I need.
Please let us know how it goes.
((((((((Jammer)))))))))))
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