Posted by Dinah on July 13, 2007, at 22:40:33
In reply to Re: The key » Dinah, posted by TherapyGirl on July 13, 2007, at 21:00:53
It *is* frustrating, those eleven through ninety-nine times. But in a way it makes me value what we work to achieve more. I've always liked to work for my rewards. I'm not nearly as good at accepting unearned grace. As long as there is eventually a payoff, I am encouraged to keep working at it.
I think I stop short at fantasies. We've discussed the technicalities of the physical things, but the fantasies are mine and any sharing I do with that is limited to what I think he needs to know. Physical stuff is much easier.
The nice thing is that it looks as if it will have benefits IRL. :)
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