Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on June 20, 2007, at 10:42:53
In reply to Re: Bye, posted by sunnydays on June 20, 2007, at 10:19:41
Hi Muffeldy,
I don't know if you've completely gone away. I hope you are still around, reading notifications of this thread.Look, I know how easy it is to condemn oneself. To get buried in self-criticisms. I know that it's incredibly hard to accept the nice things that people say about you when you are already in this cycle of self-punishment.
Just know that I'll be here for you, no matter how foul you think you are. You are just fine to me, just the way you are. Faults, disagreements, all of that stuff. It's irrelevant to how I feel about you.
Try to judge your babble-presence based on the cumulative amount of support and insight you share with us, rather than the most immediate and painful incident (dunno what that may be, btw).
You are so compassionate to other people. Even if you did something you regret, try to treat your own self with a fraction of the compassion you show to others. You are human after all. Mistakes and misjudgements happen. That's how we learn and grow. Think of this incident as an opportunity for growth and increased self-knowledge, rather than as using it as ammunition pointed at my friend.
Get in touch with me sometime? I don't mind hearing from you when you suffer. Just because you're hurting doesn't make you a bad person.
-Ll
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