Posted by annierose on May 21, 2007, at 21:41:28
In reply to To clarify, for his sake, posted by Dinah on May 21, 2007, at 12:31:02
I know we have talked about this issue between us. My t also keeps her cell phone on vibrate. I'd guess it "rings" 2x per month (remember I see her 12 times in an average month). In 3 years, there was only one phone call she took and she apologized and gave me additional time at the end of the session.
What I am trying to say, it doesn't mean he is a bad person or has bad manners. I don't think of my t any less because she keeps her cell by her side. There has been a few occasions when I too have kept my cell on (a child home sick, an emergency at work, etc).
My t's cell phone is not her work number. She has given that number out but she has a main phone as well. To me, it's just background noise.
I hope you get some sense of peace and resolution around this issue. If you don't, every phone ring will bring hurt and anger when you can just let those feelings go by.
Annie
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