Posted by muffled on April 30, 2007, at 23:00:02
In reply to Re: saw my T » muffled, posted by gazo on April 30, 2007, at 22:14:47
> yeah... i think that he did talk me down, but i don't think he was trying to. He wanted me to bring myself out of it, and to focus on breathing and crap... but i wouldn't/couldn't. Thing is his voice was more gentle and softer.. *that* is what brought me down. He was just asking me about what i was thinking and stuff.. but his voice was so calm. it re-assured me.
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> you're right.. i felt nurtured. no one ever makes me feel nurtured.**Yup, its ALL about the tone of voice for me, she could be saying gibberish for all it matters, but its the tone. After I can hear her, I like it when she says stuff bout being safe.
I have a problem w/relaxation excericises cuz it focuses on your body. Its upsets me to think about what my body is doing. When someone say relax I tense right up.
Nurtured........its a hard word for me.
I want it.....but I scared of it too.
Scared of weakness.
Scared it means something else.
WTF, its not so easy is it?
Mebbe you could get a govt funded T? They not always the greatest but you could give it a try?
Damn, sorry you in such a tough position.
Take care,
Muffled
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