Want to Quit cause it seems 'as good as it gets'

Posted by JoniS on April 9, 2007, at 21:29:10

Anyone feel this way? My T has helped me tremendously over the last 3 and a half years, but I don't believe I'm gonna grow any more in this relationship. I love my T and so at times like today when I emailed him about my blues and fighting depression his only reply was "sorry about the depression. call me if you want to I'll be happy to talk" I was thoroughly let down. I'm always free to call him, but today I just asked for an encouraging word in a reply email and he didn't. He has emailed me in the past just to say hello, have a good week or something, so email is within his communication boundary.
I think I want to quit because I am tired of loving him. I'm ok with the fact it is a therapy love, but even still, sometimes I feel his care, but many times I feel he is distanced.
He sees me as being "fused" to my husband (and therfore probably in all my relationships) as opposed to differentiated. I sometimes get tired of feeling like I'm chapter so and so in the journal of psycho-babble blah blah.
someone tell me how you went from loving your T to being ready to say good bye to your T.
sorry so long, thanks for your attention :)

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Want to Quit cause it seems 'as good as it gets' JoniS 4/9/07
Re: Want to Quit cause it seems 'as good as it get » JoniS Dinah 4/10/07
Re: Want to Quit cause it seems 'as good as it get JoniS 4/10/07
Re: Want to Quit cause it seems 'as good as it get » JoniS antigua 4/10/07
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