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Re: Quick update...more later gardenergirl

Posted by mair on March 13, 2007, at 17:32:29

In reply to Quick update...more later, posted by gardenergirl on March 13, 2007, at 10:47:30

Even if he doesn't get back to you, there is tremendous value in having written him. It will force him to try to remember what the issues were and to be prepared to deal with them when you are able to meet. I think it will also make it more difficult for you to gloss over the extent of your distress.

Aren't these people supposed to love it when we're able to express our anger with them? I think Daisy's suggestion for a session opener is a good one.

It also makes enormous sense to me that you would react so poorly to what you perceived to be his disapproval when the negative appraisals of others is a big issue for you. I struggle with perpetual feelings that I disappoint others and am unimportant to them. It doesn't take much for me to read into something my T has said or done (or not done) that I am of no importance to her. The scheduling stuff you write about would drive me nuts.

mair


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