Posted by zenhussy on January 27, 2007, at 0:34:16
In reply to Friends are confusing., posted by Daisym on January 27, 2007, at 0:10:51
GAH! that's such the not helpful reaction from a friend *especially* at this time!
((Daisy)) You're in the middle of going through...not around...no long avoiding....but through.
guess your friend found a different path that worked for her. bully for her. you have different needs. you survived in a different way than she did...perhaps she sought therapy for her compulsive tea cup collecting ? ;)......just know that her way was HER way and your way is YOUR way.
your way *is* working Daisy as you've grown stronger in so many ways that you're not able to see at this moment.
bundle up. snuggle in. hide. fooey on the friend. stay the course...that is the course of healing...staying safe...staying connected to your therapeutic anchor....and all those other things you've been doing to stay alive...and that have kept you moving FORWARD....we're sorry your friend can't yet see your progress and your growth....we've seen a bunch over the years "here" online. nuts to her. be KIND to you please.
kindly,
--zh
poster:zenhussy
thread:726973
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