Posted by muffled on January 26, 2007, at 15:14:57
In reply to Re: What the heck???? » muffled, posted by happykat on January 26, 2007, at 11:20:31
> I don't like it when my t is too nice either. I think its the waiting for the other shoe to drop syndrome for me. Nothing good happens without something bad following. Then there is the whole issue of the nicer they are, the more you trust them, and the more you trust them the more attached you feel, and the more attached you feel the scarier it becomes.Yeah, definately a sense of that shoe thing. But WOW! I doing OK w/my T and trust and stuff, better than I have w/anybody! Cool. Orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, mebbe I just feeling disconnected, and hence...safe....hmmmmm.
Definately disconnected lately, but it don't scare me! And I nOT ascared she gonna run away! and I NOT ascared she gonna dump me!!!! Which is SO huge these things YAAAAYYY!!!! HA!
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> But I also like with Llurpsie wrote about it challenging our view of ourselves.Yup I too thot that honestly scarey...and sigh, true.
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> Enjoy your walk with your t. It sounds like she's really a good person. : )Ahhhh ((____T____ )) Don't want to get too close! But she is a very sweet person.
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Take care,
Muffled
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