Posted by Karolina on January 3, 2007, at 23:03:59
In reply to i miss my T, posted by sunnydays on January 3, 2007, at 21:07:41
hey sunnydays,
Wow I can totally relate to this feeling. I HATE when my T goes on vacations...I just get this jealous feeling almost, it's hard to explain. I always think of the worst too, just wondering if he is ok and safe.
And my T sounds like your T in the way that they can be forgetful. If it makes you feel any better, one time my T left the room to go get a card to write the date of my next appointment on there and then didn't come back! I freaked out and seriously sat there for about 25 minutes. Finally the secretary came in and said he'd left! I was like what?! But it turned out that he forgot to pick up his kid from the airport and they had called while he was back there getting a card for me, and he completely forgot I was still there!!. It was terrible! He called the next day and apologized but it still distressed me for awhile.
I think there's a good side and bad side to realizing T's are human too. The bad side being: Yes, they get to go on fun vacations away from everything with their family (I think that's where I start to feel jealous, I occasionally see him as a father-figure) but then the good side being: they're not perfect, they make mistakes and forget things just like we all do sometimes.
Do you think telling him about how you've felt while he's been gone would be helpful? Hang in there, the weeks will fly by faster than you know it and then you will be able to see him again.
-Karolina-
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