Posted by muffled on November 3, 2006, at 10:51:49
In reply to Re: OK smarties explain this? » muffled, posted by Daisym on November 3, 2006, at 0:34:57
> Freud would argue that you want one, can't have one and therefore need to think you hate them to lessen the envy.
***LOL, I wanted one as a kid, just cuz it would be easier to pee outside!!!
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> If you let yourself think symbolically, what do penis--es,(OK, what did we decide last night is the plural of penis? Peni?) remind you of that you find repulsive? And how do you think of them? Erect? Shrunken? Angry? Sad?*I think we said peni !
Erect ones scare me, they are intrusive and annoying. They are like a weapon. They are demanding. They are pushy.
When they are shrunken, they are not so bad. Just kindof weird.
When they been recently 'used', they are disgusting beyond words.>
> It might help to remind yourself that a penis has no brain so it can't be dangerous. I think you have an aversion to being forced or hurt. And that is a healthy thing.*I am hurting my husbands feelings. He feels rejected, hurt. But I can't tell him why.
But peni do have minds of their own, I'd almost swear it.
I tell him its cuz he not been around much, so he goto start at the beginning again. He don't understand. I am unwilling or unable to explain it to him.
I gonna have to deal w/this.
T sorta knows, keeps asking, when you guys going away?(we supposed to go away for a coupla days to reconect).
Guess she wants to talk about this stuff. But I get all embarrassed.
Ridiculous.
Me an old married woman w /kids.
Sigh.
Well, there's my old fallback, dissociating, but I not so good at that anymore, and I afriad if I don't dissociate, I will vomit.
Thanks for being so calm and practical Dinah, makes me not feel like such an idiot.
Muffled
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