Posted by pegasus on October 4, 2006, at 19:37:04
In reply to Re: I think I get it » pegasus, posted by Dinah on October 4, 2006, at 10:11:47
Thanks Dinah for replying. I didn't really ask anything, and I mainly just wanted to write it down. Babble has become all the journaling I do lately. But it feels good to know that you understand.
I agree that it seems likely that his own stuff was contributing here. He says that he doesn't think it was about his stuff, at least consciously. Well . . . what he said was that he didn't check out of my therapy before he actually left. Which does allow the possibility that while he was still working hard, he may have been having some serious countertransference. Maybe that's part of what I still want to work out with him. Is my being convinced that he was motivated by wanting it all to be ok just an example me seeing things through my filter? Or is his denial of that (also?) him seeing things through his filter?
But, yeah, I think this *is* helping me find some peace with the whole thing.
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