Posted by inimitable on August 7, 2006, at 21:00:40
In reply to Re: a little nervous » inimitable, posted by ElaineM on August 4, 2006, at 20:10:28
hey, i went to a club alone while i was visiting family in my hometown ( i live in my college town for now), and so i had nothing to do on sat so i went to a club there, and near the end of the night, a girl came up to me and said her friend wanted to meet me. i found out later that she actually picks out girls that she think would be good for him, and introduces them. so i asked him, his name is eryk (spelled diff.) i asked him if she picked me this time or if he did and he paused and then said both. anywaysso he knows i live here, about two hours away and that i am still married and getting divorced in dec, and will be back home for good in dec as well. but he still gave me his number and he has mine. i ended the night with "okay so i'll call you, or you call me" and he said "no, you call me" i thought that was kind of weird. but anyways i called him today but he was on his way to the fair, and we chatted for a minute or so and then i said okay, well i guess call me whenever....i sounded like such a dork! and this guy is cute, cuter than any guy who's taken an interest, but i am not thinking it will go very far, he smokes as well, but seems to have other things going for him (unlike jay), but i got the vibe that he's a health freak, i asked him if while he was at the fair if he'd eat any junk food, num num! elephant ears, gibby's fries, candy apples....and he said "that's not really healthy..." and after a couple seconds i said, "is beer healthy?" cause he was slamming them back at the club.....anyways i am not expecting anything from this either, since i'm all the way here, two hours away, but my T seems to think since i do have a problem with intimacy, that a long distance relationship might be good for me, better than one, here where i am. though i doubt it will get that far with this eryk guy. i don't really FEEL it, if you know what i mean, but then again, maybe that would be better, cause all my other relationships, i FELT it, but they turned out to be nothing, and i am looking for something different....hmmm, something to think about i guess! anyways thank you for listening!
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