Posted by LadyBug on July 15, 2006, at 0:54:23
In reply to I think it is just too hard, posted by daisym on July 14, 2006, at 19:03:57
No one said you can't have your own pity party. I'm sure you wouldn't be alone in it.
When does life get any easier? It's one thing for you to try and work on "yourself" and yet another one to try to work on a "marriage". I know how hard the battle is. You are a few years ahead of me there but I am totally unhappy in my marriage. It just gets worse every week. I absolutly hate it!!
Do you want to work on your marriage? Or are you liking having your own place and your own space? What does your T think you should do at this point? Or does he say? You are a much stronger person than you give yourself credit for. But being strong to me is painful!!!!!!!!!!!! And it comes with a price we pay. Dang it anyway!
I'm hoping the next few days start to feel better for you. I hope your pity party helps a lot, if not have another one until you feel better.