Posted by MidnightBlue on May 24, 2006, at 16:52:04
In reply to Do you think it would be useful, posted by Dinah on May 24, 2006, at 15:24:18
Dinah,
So there is NO WAY you can get this house? or are they just being sticky?
> It looks like the home I love, the sale isn't going to go through. So now we have to make the decision whether or not to move based solely on merit, and move into a serviceable house rather than one I love if we move.I still think you should move. Go back and look for other houses or narrow it down on the internet to a couple. Then go ahead and move out there. You could always stay at a short term stay apartment or hotel for a couple of months while you continue to look for the house of your dreams. This is the hot market time and it might be easier to choose a house if you are actually there.
> I find it impossible to put useful input into the decision. Logically, I think it's a good idea. Emotionally I am reacting very badly to the thought of moving on many levels. On the other hand, I'm way more anxious and distressed at home than I am when away.
You said a lot in that last statement. That you are more anxious and distressed when you are home than when you are away.
> Do you think it would be useful to ask my therapist if he would be willing to do a joint session with my husband to help us order our thoughts on the topic? Do therapists help you do that? Not to make a decision for us, but to help us find a framework to make the decision ourselves.
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> My husband would really like to move, for obvious reasons. But he's worried about the effect on me. He thinks I probably need ongoing therapy but he says that I don't like most therapists. All of which my therapist thinks too.Get the names of several pdocs before you leave and go ahead and set up appointments! That way you can get in quicker.
> I am so torn about this that it isn't even believable.
I think you are over thinking this. I do that so much! It is going to be okay Dinah. It really is!
HUGS,
MidnightBlue
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