Posted by B2chica on May 5, 2006, at 9:13:08
In reply to Re: i've decided to terminate, posted by happyflower on May 4, 2006, at 20:12:39
ya i think i feel good about my decision. though i still really think i need a T at this point, i was just waisting my money and time with her.
she was nice and all but besides all the miscommunication i felt like i was being talked down to, like even before i left she made little comments like "sometimes its not what you are discussing but the fact that you are talking to a woman that is the point"...well DUH!!! i'm thinking why in the h@ll else would i even be seeing you!
i want a man! the only reason i agreed to see a woman is because i thought i needed to work on my trust issues with women....so no sh@t dumb @ss!!!!then i told her i saw a couple other people just to see if i was doing the right thing...and her comment to me was "well, now don't expect to instantly bond right off the bat, you must work at your relationship, that's all part of therapy".
again...NO SH#T!!!
but even more to the point, i have a pretty good instinct about people and though i don't know for sure about if it will work or not- my gut instinct is usually pretty right. i knew it about several other T's i saw that weren't right, i knew it about her. the ones that worked i pretty much knew right away-my old T, my pdoc and gp i pretty much knew right away. so over all i'd say DON"T DOUBT MY JUDGEMENT! MY CHOICE NOT YOURS!dang, so much anger.
so i've decided that until i've worked on my other issues i can't work on the woman thing. besides, it's not like i hate all women. infact i have a girlfriend that i talk to alot, there was a student here that i got along Great with and talked to about depression and stuff. Overall i get along with women i just tend to feel more at ease with guys. besides who in the h@ll said i have to get along with and trust every woman??!! that's not right.
but again, i need to talk about my other issues and to do that i must feel safe and protected.sorry for the rant.
thank you very much for your support HF.
b2c.
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