Posted by happyflower on April 25, 2006, at 7:48:29
In reply to T is confusing me, posted by Karolina on April 24, 2006, at 22:12:01
Hi Karolina!
I swear you and I go to the same T! LOL My T does the same thing, with the staring, looking down, he even turn red depending what we are talking about. My T knows I am attracted to him, but he is also attracted to me and yes, you can feel that sexual tension in the room.
To be perfectly honest I don't know if talking to him will help because they aren't suppose to tell you they are attracted to you, so you will never get that answer directly from him. But I think you know the answer to the question anyways. I think it is very hard for people to hide their feelings, even T's.I think the comment, I am flattered, must be something they learn in T school. Because my T said I take it as a compliment, etc. Blah , Blah, Blah.
They are men after all and if you think he is attracted to you , he probably is. Now what to do about it, I don't know, I am still trying to figure that one out. But it is their responsibility to keep it out of the room, but I don't think they can hide it anyways, especially if the client feels the same way. But I know the stuggle very well, babble mail me anytime!
Good luck. Let us know what you deceide to do.
By the way Welcome to Babble if you are new!
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