Posted by Racer on April 17, 2006, at 15:02:18
In reply to Re: please help » jammerlich, posted by orchid on April 17, 2006, at 13:55:32
And I think you come up with something that says you understand about her husband, you're hoping he's doing well, to get in touch with you when she gets back from her trip --
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I would also tell her that you have been a bit uncomfortable about going to see her sister, and that while you are appreciative that she cares so much about you that she arranged it, you're not sure that you want to reschedule at this time. I wouldn't say that you won't, because you don't have to make it black and white right now -- maybe a month from now you'll be in a place where you are raring to go up there and have this consult, right? So, leave that open, but let her know that it's not a foregone conclusion.
And then thank her again for arranging it in the first place.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can imagine how hard this must be for you, but I agree with Orchid that even a consult with the sister of a friend would be a bit awkward.
Good luck, and i hope you feel better soon.
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