Posted by TherapyGirl on March 30, 2006, at 20:40:25
In reply to Re: Heretical thought -- possible trigger » TherapyGirl, posted by Dinah on March 30, 2006, at 19:54:58
I know you can't imagine it, Dinah, because a good bit of the time I can't imagine it right now either. But it did happen. It was really, really okay and I believe (on my good days) that it will be okay again.
I think it's different, for one thing, if it is a mutual decision rather than as a result of the T's schedule. My T missed 6 weeks around the 2nd or 3rd year and I thought I'd never make it. She was out two weeks about 6 weeks after my newest trauma and the same thing happened. But when I'm in a better place, I can get my needs met from friends and family and not so much just her. When I'm in a rotten place, she's the only one who will do. (Much like a 2-year-old who is fine with others until she gets hurt or is sick -- then she just wants Mommy.)
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