Posted by Daisym on March 24, 2006, at 1:11:30
In reply to pressure to sign....trust, posted by B2chica on March 23, 2006, at 11:06:17
At some point I'm guessing this new therapist will do something right. And I think you want her to help you. *I* want her to help you. And I think, eventually, you are going to need someone to help you feel all the upset from your beloved therapist leaving. Even though...and but...yet...
I can hear you protesting that you *knew* he was going to leave and he *did* help you tremendously and you had a good termination.Here is my own "but" -- you don't trust the new therapist to not hurt you and to not leave you. Women haven't been trustworthy before, and you have every reason to be cautious. But I think she is honoring what she has said she would and wouldn't do. You can't demand of yourself, or little b2, that you trust her right away. Or maybe ever. But I think she might be worth giving another month or so. Just to see...
All that said, EE is right. Only you know what is best for you. I wish it was easier than this.
Hugs,
Daisy
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