Posted by happyflower on March 9, 2006, at 10:17:38
In reply to Re: Happyflower, did you see your T ? » happyflower, posted by LadyBug on March 8, 2006, at 20:32:45
Lady Bug, your post helped me so much. I was feeling so low and down but you and only you reached out to me in my dispair, and that means a lot to me.
It really stings when our kids say hurtful things to us. I am sure she didn't mean what she was saying, I am sure she was just feeling frusterated and took it out on you. But it is hard to rationize it while it is happening to you. The people we love can hurt us the most, it is so true.
I need my T too this week. Even though we had a session Monday, we didn't talk about what I really needed too. So I tried to get in this week, and couldn't. But hearing his voice helped me some. Yesterday when he called to make an appointment for next Monday, he said normally they say to actors, break a leg, for good luck and support, well he asked me what do you say for musicans? I couldn't even say anything, I was on the verge of tears because he wanted to offer me good luck. Then he said how about "Blow that horn, babe" I said I will take that. LOL I am glad the phone call ended because I was so tearful and would have lost it on the phone with him. I have never cried during therapy, but I have a feeling the tears are more and more closer to the surface. I feel it would be okay to let myself go if I needed to, with him because I trust him . The bond has deepened a lot lately. I feel like he truely cares about me.
Well how are you feeling about you and your daugher ? Have you made up? I hope you are okay.
Thank you so much for being here for me when I just needed someone to care. Your words meant a lot. Thanks again.
Happyflower
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