Posted by JenStar on February 28, 2006, at 22:18:35
In reply to Re: Would you be offended? » annierose, posted by Dinah on February 26, 2006, at 16:02:17
OK, don't hate me for saying this, but is it possible you're being too sensitive about this issue? (dodging rotton eggs and vegetables from everyone!)
I'm just playing devil's advocate here. I know we all expect our T's to be superhuman; to anticipate our emotions, to bolster our courage, to heal our wounds, to be there, to always say just the right thing. And most of the time it's OK to expect that. But if you have been with him a long time, would it maybe be fair for him to admit to some kind of physical discomfort, to not be perfect, and to still be able to work well with you? Are you maybe angry that he's not been there 100% so this means more than it ordinarily might?
Again, I'm sorry, I'm not trying to poke my finger into a sore spot. I'm just trying to think about it from another angle...
JenStar
BUT...maybe it's not possible for a T to always be that perfect, esp. considering what he's been through himself?
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