Posted by All Done on February 21, 2006, at 12:41:11
In reply to A Quiz, just because, posted by Daisym on February 21, 2006, at 0:53:17
Very interesting, Daisy...
There's not much I don't ask my T, but given the last session I had, I'd like to ask if he loves me in *any* way. It might be the one thing I'll never ask though, because I'm too terrified, yet fairly certain, that the answer is no and I would just get a non-response. I'm really learning to hate those non-responses. They're worse than a negative response, because now I have to wonder and I have quite an ability to assume the absolute worst.
I suppose (just out of curiosity's sake - umm, maybe??), I wonder if he's married or attached and if he has more than the one child he's told me about.
Like happyflower, I'd like for my T to ask me to hug him, but not for his benefit. If he asked, I would feel reassured that he's not mortified by the idea of touching me and he believes I need a hug, it's okay to give me one, and it's in my best interest to get one from him. Plus, I wouldn't have to deal with the rejection if I asked and he couldn't or wouldn't allow it.
I'd hate for him to ask me what I know about him that he hasn't told me himself. It's not that I've learned a whole lot, but I've never admitted to Googling him.
Oh...one other thing...I'd like him to ask me if I want a picture of him.
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