Posted by annierose on January 3, 2006, at 22:02:50
In reply to T3 - What a weird coincidence., posted by Dinah on January 3, 2006, at 19:28:06
I'm glad you went to your session too. It's a hard conversation to have in person, and you are very brave and mature to have gone. Better yet, it sounded like a great session. This T seems very smart. From things you have mentioned about her, she reminds me of my daughter's T. Not the most warm person in the world, but very smart and tuned in and "gets it".
I do like her views regarding your T and your current relationship. To me, she is talking about growth, something I know you say you are frightened of, but yet, you are growing and becoming stronger. And she's right, you did get through Katrina and it's continuing aftermath essentially without your T. YOU did it. YOU!
And just because your T is okay with you maintaining a non-continuous relationship with T3, it doesn't mean he wants to or will terminate you. I think he would be saying that building up a support network, especially because I don't practice near you, is a good idea. Plan B.
I like your idea consulting with T3 re:T1. Even though she had the same agenda, it's a sound idea.
I would like a session like that once in awhile too.Leaving an open door --- all good. Double pats on your back.
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