Posted by LadyBug on January 2, 2006, at 0:27:50
In reply to A sense of foreboding (too long), posted by mair on January 1, 2006, at 16:02:19
I know how you feel as I'm going through the same thing right now. I just got new benefits, not only with my new job, but my husbands new job too. We both have insurance and neither one has my therapist in network. She's given me a reduced fee too. I'm torn! If I switch in Sept. during the anual open enrolment period and chose the other plan, she will be on it. But then I lose my Dr.s. So it becomes a gamma of hard feelings. AND MONEY!! I usually go once a week unless I'm struggling. I've been seeing my T. for 9 years and can't even begin to think of seeing someone else. She is awesome. She feels like my best friend, best sister, best mom all in one.
I know what a delimna you are in. I agree that this isn't just an investment in yourself, but your kids as well. I hope I can be a better mom because of what I learn about myself in therapy. I've always found a way to pay her in the darkest of financial troubles I've been through and trust me, I've had more than my share of that! It is a sacrafice, but you are worth it!!!! Remeber that. Keep in mind that things will work out, they always do, maybe not the way we like them, but we learn to adapt to what happens in our lives.
Hang in there, it will be ok.
LadyBug
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