Posted by happyflower on December 5, 2005, at 13:56:38
In reply to Re: Mom Hung Up on Me, T Glad What I said... » Poet, posted by Dinah on December 4, 2005, at 10:43:19
Hi Poet,
I have been avoiding your thread because it is sort of triggering for me, so this is the first I time I have felt up to reading it.I think everyone needs to deceide what is best for them in a situation. Most people do not change. My mother was a horendous abuser emotionally physically, and there was a ton of neglect from both of my parents. My relationship with my mother ended with a phone call where she hung up on me. My father died a few years ago before Christmas, and my mother is still living but threatening my me and my family every now and then. M
My T fully supports me disowning my mother. He said she is one scary b*tch. I should of ended up dead with the abuse from her I endurred. I know Orchid said that she would never cut off family, but in my case it is the safest thing to do.
I don't know if your mother was abuser to you, but I fully understand if you need to cut her off. You are not alone.
poster:happyflower
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