Posted by Tamar on November 22, 2005, at 18:47:17
In reply to I think I get like this like a cycle, ally and muf, posted by happyflower on November 22, 2005, at 17:51:05
(((((Happyflower)))))
Can you see your T a bit more often? I wonder if the marriage problems are getting you down so much that you need your T more often... Maybe once a month isn't enough at the moment. It occurs to me that feeling unwanted in your marriage isn't so far away from some of the childhood feelings you’ve worked on before... and maybe you need a bit more support than you're getting.
Glad you saw him at the gym. That's always good, eh? But maybe you need more than gym-contact.
I'm a little in awe of you, to be honest, especially in view of how well you've been coping with your marital difficulties. I suspect that if I were in your shoes I'd have done something socially unacceptable by now. I'm really impressed by how you're handling it. Your strength of character does you credit. But don't be shy about asking for more help if you need it, because that's a strength in itself.
Tamar
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