Posted by Dinah on November 15, 2005, at 21:08:09
In reply to Re: He wants me to come up with ideas on how » Dinah, posted by fallsfall on November 14, 2005, at 20:01:29
Yeah, I really can't justify the time. :(
If I were sure I really wanted to connect, having him call once a week to make me really mad might well do it. Anger is a great connection tightener. :)
But I'm not quite sure that I want to be that firmly attached. After all, days before he went away for a month he was telling me pretty much exactly the same things he's telling me now.
Trust is a hard thing to rebuild.
But I guess there are different sorts of trust. Or you can trust people in some ways but not others. I trust him to be *him* and what I need when he's here. But I don't trust him to be here, and I don't know if I can trust him that way again.
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