Posted by B2chica on November 2, 2005, at 9:16:19
In reply to Re: graphic discussions? **trigger** » B2chica, posted by daisym on November 2, 2005, at 0:11:48
thanks annierose i hope my T doesnt' loose respect. but maybe i have to take that chance.
your right antigua, i don't think it will surprise him, but i guess i'm scared that it will. and i've heard that "if you can verbalize it it will lessen its power over you". i think it's true this time. since talking about it monday, i can't shake it, i still feel the fear i felt then.
FW i think i'm really struggling with seeing myself as a victim. in dbt they went over this whole list and one of the main things is that we have to take responsibility for our actions. and that seems to solidify that i feel partial blame.daisy, i think you have a great idea here. maybe i will ask him first on his position on details, and i'll tell him what my fear is...maybe that's a good way to start the conversation. and i admire your strength. thank you for sharing your experience with this.
thanks all
b2c.
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