Posted by allisonross on October 20, 2005, at 10:22:29
In reply to Re: You know what?/HappyFlower/Pls.READ » allisonross, posted by Annierose on October 20, 2005, at 9:59:53
Hi, Annie: Still new at this; so hope you get the response. I've been with him for 3 years; and we have had an amazing relationship....there's nothing we cannot discuss...when I have been angry with him, I tell him; he says he deeply respects that I "bring up the hard stuff" No, when he asked me how long I could stand to go without sex (at least consciously), he simply meant.....that? No references to himself (although he knows that is what I want)......I amaze myself at my abilit to be strong and not act on my feelings. Semi-seductive? No, i would say he IS seductive (something he told me that I....was) I could tell you LOTS of other things he has said/done...I tease the life out of him---he told me the reason I loved being outrageous was it made me feel "sexy." I waited a long time to tell him I had feelings for him (it was a loooong discussion, he was incredibly respectful and sensitive......I then waited another long period of time to tell him that I thought He had feelings for ME---he said he was "deeply in love with his wife"---i realized later, he had NOT answered my question); i sat there for 2 hours, calmly, professionally, acting like nothing traumatic had happened, and then got in my car and broke down sobbing---i told him that and we discussed it.....He says i am dangerous (LOL), cause he knows I am subtle; if I told you what he did LAST week.....I believe he loves his wife, but I also believe....he is in love with me (actually he has said it 2 times--"Isn't it enough that I love you?"), but in a way....he said that he "falls in love with ALL of his clients" and I understand that meaning..i could write a book about our relationship, but then...he'd be arrested! LOL, LOL
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