Posted by LauraG on October 18, 2005, at 11:58:48
In reply to Re: Please help! My T terminated me!!!!!!!, posted by Pfinstegg on October 18, 2005, at 0:57:56
Thanks Pfinstegg!
I admit to being a little slow at this. You said:
>>The fact that you are really attached to her is very important and healing in and of itself. Be sure to tell her how important that is to you!Why is that, that I'm really attached to her is impt and healing?
>>She may be feeling a bit discouraged that things haven't moved a bit faster, and may have lost some of her confidence in her ability to help you.
I wonder that too, but I guess they don't like to tell us that? And I wonder too if she feels more confident in her ability as a group T, but I'm not sure why that will make things different for me. Any ideas?
>>But it sounds like you have maintained your hope and confidence in her- that's what is really important!
Yes, and I have never imagined getting through all this with anyone but her, but I guess that is always true for each of us? I think she probably doesn't know this.
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> I hope you will be able to tell her your feelings fully, and find a way to continue working with her. Maybe ask for an extra appointment this week?Me too. I called her twice yesterday to ask for one today or tomorrow morning before group, but she hasn't returned my calls, which is unlike her and causes me to become paranoid and imagine she is avoiding me.
Ugh, I never thought this would happen to me!
Boo hoo hoo!!!
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