Posted by orchid on October 3, 2005, at 16:48:20
In reply to Re: Feeling sad to leave » orchid, posted by Dinah on October 3, 2005, at 15:07:50
Thanks Dinah for the support. It feels good to know that I am not the sole person who would feel this way.
Actually moving back is a 100 % decided thing. Besides, it is a commitment I made to my hsuband long back, and it is time to honor it. Plus his father is terminally ill, and though he is quite old, and my husband isn't very bonded to him as such, I don't want to play with things when a person is terminally ill. I want to support my husband's desire to be with his father during his last days, and I have nothing against it. So I have been trying to be as supportive as possible to my husband overall. I didn't make a big fuss for moving back either.
But I don't want to stay with my in laws. That is a major concern for me. There is also my brother in law who is staying in the same house, and though I like my in laws quite a lot, I prefer to stay somewhere closeby and visit them kind of everyday evening. I am mad because my husband won't listen to this option. Ideally, I want to continue even with my same company in a different city and mabye commute on the weekends, or my husband can stay with his parents and I can stay where my company is and commute, but he is refusing to give me that option as well. That is why I get so angry. I can't handle staying with in laws and a brother in law. It is too much for me to handle with the move as such.
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