Posted by alexandra_k on September 7, 2005, at 19:41:09
In reply to Hugs from T?, posted by luvdove on September 7, 2005, at 6:11:01
yeah i think different t's have different policies on that one...
i would never ask for one from a male t. i might want one but i don't think that any good would come of it in the long run
my current t gives me a hug at the end of most sessions
i think it is because i was having a really hard time feeling attached to her
she offered when she came to visit me in hosipital... and then maybe a month or so after that she offered again... and then i got up the courage to ask. i hate asking. i just about fall through the floor with embarrassment. and i think i'd feel mortified if i was told 'no'. its kind of becoming a routine at the end of the session. i think in this context it is okay...
i think it is...
but t's have to be careful...
it is worth asking
but that being said...
i guess i'd never ask in a million years
just in case they say 'no'
and i think... after that i'd be too embarrased to go back
and i know that is irrational
<sigh>
but there it is
poster:alexandra_k
thread:551803
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