Posted by Tamar on August 29, 2005, at 14:45:09
In reply to no babies...., posted by B2chica on August 29, 2005, at 11:12:28
Gosh, B2C, that’s hard. It’s awful to want something like this and to have to postpone it.
I think if you are quite depressed it’s probably good advice to wait a while. Apparently if women are very depressed during pregnancy they’re much more likely to suffer from postpartum depression, and being depressed with a baby is just awful.
But spring isn’t too far away! Just a few short months. And I hope this doesn’t sound silly, but do take extra care of yourself when your period comes. It’s astonishing how strongly menstruation can come to symbolise loss in a situation like this.
I hope the months fly past and you feel much better by spring.
Tamar
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