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Re: My Experience LittleGirlLost

Posted by frida on August 25, 2005, at 14:44:17

In reply to Re: My Experience, posted by LittleGirlLost on August 25, 2005, at 11:36:08

Hi,
My experience is similar to Little Girl Lost.
I feel horrible to have had those feelings but I feel that sharing T's eventually brings problems.
When I was in great distress, one friend of mine suggested I called her T, saying her T was great, etc. (she wasn't as attached to her because she took things differently and went there for other reasons). Well, I was so desperate that I called my now T and left a message and started seeing her.
At first with my friend everything was ok, and we would share, but I started feeling awful when my friend shared about her sessions..It truly hurt and made me doubt everything. I felt really bad. It got very hard-
Eventually my friend stopped seeing my T, (now it's been three years since she hasn't seen her), and doesn't expect to see her, but it is hard. Now we stay in touch every once in a while, and I can't share anything about T, because I feel afraid of her wanting to see my T again.
My friend and I weren't as close- but still, it is a very difficult situation.
I feel grateful that my friend is feeling well and doesn't need T anymore and doesn't want to see my T.
it's silly maybe but i was relieved to know now that my T and I have been seeing each other for more time than they had.
I feel like a child- having all these feelings- but I would not share my T with anyone.
Maybe you can ask this T to give you some referrals? I don't know, it's a difficult thing...it does affect the friendship.

frida


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