Posted by annierose on August 24, 2005, at 21:55:08
In reply to Attachment and loss...possible trigger, posted by gardenergirl on August 24, 2005, at 19:28:09
My T has used those exact same words "I want to hear your thoughts so I don't collude with you" --- AARRGGHH! or "put ideas into your head"
I didn't know what my "aarrggh" meant, but maybe you're right, it feels like that are pulling back. Also I feel like she isn't helping me, likes watching me struggle, grappling for the right word to describe the "GET ME OUT OF HERE!"
I'm glad you're back from your trip. I hope it was productive. Sorry that you're in the abyss with me. I'm hoping to buy a flashlight soon. I want to crawl my way towards the sunlight.
Do you have another year before you graduate? Is that why you are thinking about shedding therapy? It's unfortunate the university T's have a limited time frame, but understandable, as you are one too. You understand it from both perspectives. It's hard!
When your T said "it's hard for the therapist too", I think he was referring to losing you as a client one day. That was very sweet. I like him. And it's okay to be a royal pain, sometimes, they are too!
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