Posted by Jen Star on July 23, 2005, at 17:15:35
In reply to Help! (trigger), posted by messadivoce on July 23, 2005, at 14:12:37
that IS terrible! I'm sorry that you were assaulted by that guy, and that he's on the "potential" invite list. How awful and sucky.
It also sucks that weddings are NOT just for you & the groom. And planning a wedding is truly recongized as one of the potentially most stressful times for a woman! I hope you can find lots of great support to get you through all the difficult moments. And when the big day comes, I hope you can enjoy and savor the moment and the spotlight! :)
Do you mean that you need an extra T? How about more sessions with this T to help you get thru it?
I don't know what to advise you about inviting that guy. If he's important politically, it might be considered gossipy and fodder for talk if he's NOT invited, and people might assume things. However, inviting him feels wrong to you, I can tell. I guess you'll have to think it over and see which option will have the least awful consequences. If he does end up at the wedding, you can totally ignore him and his family, right? It sounds like a huge wedding!
good luck with it all.
JenStar
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