Posted by cricket on July 20, 2005, at 10:59:30
In reply to Re: good session about sessions » Dinah, posted by alexandra_k on July 19, 2005, at 18:26:55
> I don't want her to meet them. I don't want anybody to meet them. I'm happy to work on increasing communication but not happy to work on controlling switching. Nope. But I don't know how that would go down typically... I guess it would be all about my issues... But I do worry that that process isn't all that helpful. I'm not sure that my belief is solely the result of pathology.
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Yeah, I know about not wanting anybody to talk to them directly.It took years for me to get to the point of letting them talk to my T.
But after working with him for so long and building up an alliance, I think it just seemed like the fair (both to them and to my therapist) thing to do. I got tired of being the omniscient narrator all the time. Also, I have to say it has helped a lot with switching, at least in therapy.
Why do you say you don't want to work on controlling switching? I'm not sure I understand.
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