Posted by annierose on June 20, 2005, at 21:43:31
In reply to Should I marry someone like my dad? » pinkeye, posted by pinkeye on June 20, 2005, at 17:39:46
I am surprised a T would even imply you should divorce your husband and marry someone more like your father. Shouldn't the first step be to resolve the issues within yourself in regards to the relationship with #1 your father and #2 your former therapist.
Divorcing and remarrying NEVER solves ANYTHING unless the person has changed internally. You are just changing one problem for another (usually much bigger).
Maybe I'm over reacting. Maybe your T should be helping you work within your current marriage, unless there is physical and/or emotional abuse.
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